The nature of our humanity and society is that of constant improvement. In all of history, everything that has been created has been tweaked and perfected throughout the years, it’s in our nature. Technology and digital media are no exception, but today it begs the question, is technology doing its job too well? The goal of Twitter, the internet and other digital technologies have irreversibly woven themselves into modern society, and we are left to grapple with it. Douglas Rushkoff brings up the idea of FOMO, or “fear of missing out,” and how it is further aggravated by digital media. Rushkoff uses the example of the woman who spends a night on the town in New York City on her phone, sharing pictures and finding out where her friends are. On one side, we are pressured to constantly post updates on all the cool stuff we are doing, on the other, we scroll through on the receiving end of these updates, feeling like we in turn are not doing enough ourselves. It’s a vicious cycle.
Digital media perpetrates this cycle, where it sometimes can feel like people are more focused on making it appear online like they are having a good time, rather than actually enjoying the moment itself. Rushkoff uses the example of “Gina” in his book. Gina is a popular high school student who spends a Friday night on the town in New York City: “She’s at a club on the Upper East Side, but she seems oblivious to the boys and the music. Instead of engaging with those around her, she’s scrolling through text messages on her phone, from friends at other parties, bars, and clubs throughout New York.” She then moves to another party, where “…she turns her phone around, activates the camera, and proceeds to take pictures of herself and her friends – instantly uploading them to her Facebook page for the world to see.” This chapter resonated with me to an uncomfortable degree. I am all too familiar with this in college, out and about and everywhere I see people on their phones and taking pictures. Granted, I love getting pictures and there’s nothing harmless about it if done right. However, there are certain people that as soon as something funny or entertaining happens, they whip out their phone to shoot or record it to send around social media. One night sophomore year my roommate and I were getting ready for bed, when our friend came by. My roommate said something funny and she quickly took out her phone, flash and all, and began filming him, “what did you just say?” While I can definitely be a phone addict, I think I do a decent job of not trying to capture everything digitally and rather just enjoy it physically.
For free services like Facebook and Twitter, they wage a constant war for our attention in order to realize profits. They are constantly working to get us to check our phone one more time. It is not just in the casual world of entertainment. Our jobs today feel more and more connected, even beyond the office. I am currently an intern in Creighton’s marketing department, and I receive dozens of emails a day from our project management system, even when I am not in the office or when the projects no longer relate to me. While I could change the email settings, that would mean me possibly missing notification for projects I am involved in. I have not even fully entered the workforce yet, and am already feeling work’s technological reach beyond the workspace. My mom comes home from work and sits down at her computer to answer emails for several hours after she has physically left the office. Increased technology in the workplace has made it more and more difficult for us to keep work within office hours.
In our world of ever-increasing connectivity, it becomes more and more difficult to unplug in numerous facets of life. When we hit the town to relax after a stressful week, we check our phones to see what our friends are up to elsewhere. When we come home from work, we are still inundated with emails and projects that can be done online. Technology advances faster than we can determine how to best regulate it, and we as a society are still grappling with how to best balance our technology intake with the rest our lives, lest they be overtaken completely.







